Candid Conversations

Lately, I realised that my work slowly began to focus more on how I interact with people and the demand for communication. This is something I truly missed for the past 8-9 months and I was really enjoying it. Whenever it died down, I became extremely restless.

My conversations were quite candid, a mixture of sweetness and bitterness. I personally used to believe that being sweet to every person you come across is the best strategy. Unfortunately, it was a hard realisation for me that this is not always true. Some people are out there, like animals waiting for their prey, to pounce on the next person who they can lay their hands/paws/claws on. That person would be their scapegoat whatever the situation may be. This made me realise that close analysis of a person is very important. Some people have a personality that is like an open book. However, for some characters, I do not think I could ever conclude. A diplomatic approach keeps everyone happy.

The natural tendency when one comes across creeps and rude people is that we tend to become like them or let us say that we tend to behave with them in the same manner they would to us. Well, that just increases the number of creeps and rude people, so I choose not to remember what has happened in the past but a reminder note will be present at the back of my mind so that these creeps do not get to sit on my head.

Some people always love to greet you whenever and wherever you meet them. Even a smile from such people makes a lot of difference. Thankfully, I was quite lucky to meet many people of that kind. It has had a good influence on me too. I tend to greet people often with a smile and the greeting many a time sounds like a song, which can light up anyone’s face.

For the sake of candid conversations, I am looking forward to meeting more people and hope the sour ones of the lot do not leave a permanent mark on my mind.